Nowadays, there’s an old-new idea rolling, that is, to wait until marriage to have Sex. Considering the exceeded exposition of sensual bodies, sex issues became commonplace and the romantic part, affection, being almost extinguished, it seems a pretty good option to preserve more sensible ideas.
By this perspective, we can say, there is a way to revert such lack of values. It’s the one thought to be covered by romanticism, a rare thing at sex to avoid aids and other sexual diseases, then, there is truly an illusion, which turns you in a paralyzed person.
One essential argument is finances, when couples start to make love, they start unconsciously to flirt with the idea of having kids, specially if they fell in love, that’s the reason why it’s important to have a concise base, which means:
- a mature mind
- a long term relationship, a stable union would be preferable, , (a civil marriage guarantees better upbringing)
- your own place,
- an established economic structure – to raise kids is expensive – and above of all:
- an everlasting patience
- A children caring nature
So, plan every step of these events above and you shouldn’t be disappointed by the course your life might take. After things fall in to place, your only option left would leave you grinding in a hole but not for long, may your kid cry too!
You have to take decisions carefully. There is something that comes from inside, such an inner voice. Let your heart guide you, except for your partner, others shouldn’t count. That concerns only you and your best half, after all. It shouldn’t be made public, since only close friends deserve our trust, for affection is a private matter. However, your partner deserves to know your decisions, in order to determine whether he/she wants to wait on you or not.
When you have some important principles that drives your life, you should be coherent with your behavior, heart matters concern to deep feelings, so make sure you are on the right lane.