By Adriana Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist
There is much underlying in the simple act of kissing. Regarded in its myriad of manifestations as demonstration of affection, widely diffused in westernized societies. Individual traits can further influence the act of kissing. Furthermore, the sort of relation there is in exchanging kisses between two people is solely defined by intensity and intention, which would determine whether formal, familiar or emotional.
The kiss in itself doesn't require any degree of compromising. Having said
that, today's youngsters start kissing in a highly erotic style shortly after
meeting, just to call it right off with the same degree of detachment. The art
of kissing brings about undescriptive sensations, but to know whom we kiss is
of essence. There is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone you know.
Much as words and glances can trigger physical reactions sending our pulse rate
racing fast, imagine what a kiss would. It's during this foreplay of a sort,
of exchanging glances and compliments that distillation or lubrication results
as byproduct of genital glands' mucous secretions. All of that represents the
physical sign of desire in both genders for further close contact, in that being
genitally ready for lovemaking.
||A very good kiss can bring people close together. A kiss may
represent an end to a distant relation and, in a sense, the real beginning
of most intimate encounters. A woman, who lets herself go while indulging
in a deeply erotic kiss, is well on the road to seduction. This is when
touching comes into play whether passively or actively. Although in a French
kiss smell and taste may play lesser parts. A tongue jammed down the throat
isn't necessarily everyone's cup of tea, but its absence can be somewhat
The French kiss unlikely the unpretentious peck is one of the most powerful
sparks of desire. A kiss will never be the same. Even those self-proclaimed
experts in the art of kissing may do it a hundred times and yet render each
kiss felt differently. Couples can improve foreplay techniques by playing it
along. Exploratory kissing in this case is fundamental to achieve bonds of intimacy
and ward off monotony. The lips can begin a kiss while the tongue gears into
action shortly thereafter. Start kissing on the nape of the neck and around
the shoulders, from the blossom all the way down to the thighs. Use your tongue
and nibble softly on the erogenous zones to give and take pleasure. As in all
sex-games to find out where it promotes more satisfaction calls for experimentation,
seeing that one of the most gratifying love acts consists in discovering the
ultimate mode of stimulating lust.
Even a kiss between the eyes can produce heightened sensations. Kissing is
an enchanting essence that should be employed as basic requisite to live up
a sexual-affective moment laden with reassurance and pleasure.