Many people get troubled when having sex for the first time ever, particularly
young people. Undoubtedly, the major problem faced by those having sex for the
first time would be the lack of experience. And yet, there might be other problems
likely to render the first time decision of having sex into something even more
complicated than the decision making itself.
There is the fear of doing something wrong when the time of having sex comes,
or partner disappointment by the first time someone is having sex.
Guilt is another thing that is not good for healthy and satisfactory sex. Religion
has much to do with guilt among those having sex for the first time, since sex is the original sin for many religions.
Another problem is anxiety, the pressure on loosing virginity, for having sex,
in other words. The ideal would be to take time before jumping on the definite
decision of having sex. But things do not always happen this way, especially
on current days, when virginity is deemed as something derogatory. As known,
gaining ground within a certain group and thus being accepted, especially adolescents
tend to act impulsively as others do.
Orgasm reaching is much like a craze on current times, especially for women,
for men usually find no difficulty in reaching orgasm. The pressure for achieving
sexual climax also doesn't help the ones who are having sex.
Sex is the exact opposite: sex is about relaxing. Orgasm is also
about relaxation, guilt-free.
But something that shouldn't pose no troublesome for those into having sex is having safe sex, doubtless.