By Darci L. Duro Janarelli
Hitherto, this article intends to comment certain discrepancies
between the male sex and the female sex in relation to their
respective behaviors towards practice of sexuality, in a broader
First of all, let's define what sexual relation
means, which encompasses unequal dimensions for men and for women.
For men, it's quite simple an answer, once penis participation
is fare enough regardless of the type of sexual intercourse whether
vaginal, oral or anal.
Thus, sexual relation is, in the male conception,
basically, a genital-ridden relation, whatever sexual practices
must have a penis included.
It's interesting to say that for most men masturbation
isn't regarded as sexual relation, but only oral sex, vaginal
sex and anal sex.
For women, the concept of sexual relation goes
beyond than just the sex act itself and therein lies a staple difference
between men and women, the genitality.
All seems quite simple for a man. A question of arch-reflex;
The dissociation love-sex for a man is quite profound,
fact that doesn't occur for most women, which makes that the meaning of
sexual relation being more ample and complex for the female sex.
They require more attention paid on foreplay and prelude
of what makes that, several times, sexual intercourse reaches its
end long before the moment on which point two bodies are already naked.
As opposed to men, who have in the sense of sight their
most accurate beacon with regard to sexuality, women have in the
sense of hearing the main sense capable of triggering off sensations of
Therefore, being a man sexual athlete isn't enough,
but a romantic athlete also, according to Barbara Andersen. So much so
that, some authors usually say that the female orgasm takes place between
their ears other than between their legs.
Women like and appreciate certain delicate gestures and
politeness and that doesn't include only the act of giving flowers or
opening car doors.
Further, sharing life's up and downs, taking heed to
simple chores like undoing the dinner table, usually influence on the
complicity existing between the couple.
Beginning sexual approach directly, without preparation
beforehand, isn't always such a good idea in the feminine universe.
All the way around, most women would prefer to dance
to romantic music followed by a soothing massage session.
Special attention should be dispensed to the unique capacity
of audition, of which transforms enticing words in crescent moments of
It's not always easy to conciliate the male impetus of
penetration with the romantic and cuddles-thirsty of women behavior, mostly
after a few years of living together that end up by turning a relation
hostage of routine and which many times render the sex act as mechanic
an act as automatic.
Such discrepancies of conduct may well being destined
to enrich a relationship, as it only takes each partner to be aware of
each other's needs and change such need into mutual satisfaction.